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Preschoolers 101: Understanding Preschooler Development.

5/8/2014

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Your toddler is now preschool age -- learn what behaviors to expect and how to nurture independence during the preschool years. By Rebecca Phillips 

What defines a preschooler?

A child of 3 or 4 is considered a preschooler. So whether or not your child is attending a formal preschool program, he is no longer a toddler. Preschoolers are different from toddlers in that they are developing the basic life skills, independence, and knowledge that they will need as they enter their school years.

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What should my preschooler be able to do at this age?

Preschoolers are learning many new skills and stretching their cognitive abilities. Meg Meeker, M.D., a pediatrician in Traverse City, Michigan, and the best-selling author of six parenting books, breaks down what your preschooler should be able to do below. Though these are the major skills to look out for, be aware that every child develops differently, and yours might accomplish one skill earlier than others. Don't worry about small differentiations from the norm, but if you have concerns about the overall development, consult your pediatrician. "At 3, he should have the fine motor skills to dress himself and the gross motor skills to pedal a tricycle. Compared [with how he is at age] 2, a child is more interested in interactive play rather than parallel play. Kids at 3 should be asking deeper questions and be inquisitive about their environment," Dr. Meeker says. By age 4, a child should be able to dress and undress himself, cut basic figures out of paper and paste them on another piece of paper, draw little stick figures, name four or five colors, understand your jokes, and joke with you. At age 5, Dr. Meeker continues, kids should be able to count, draw a person with the arms, legs, and body in the right places, exhibit imaginary and pretend play (sometimes with an imaginary friend), ride a two-wheel bicycle with training wheels, and articulate well enough to be understood.

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How can I improve my preschooler's behavior?

Every parent has been warned about the "terrible twos," but many parents find that it's actually the threes and fours that are more challenging. When it comes to temperament, "some kids can actually have a more difficult time during the threes than the twos," Dr. Meeker says, as children this age want to assert their independence. They are more aware of their own needs and desires -- and also aware when those needs and desires aren't being met.

Is your preschooler's behavior driving you crazy? Put a stop to tantrums and meltdowns by focusing and giving enough attention. "The most important thing is emotional connection, giving your child one-on-one attention," says Amy McCready, a discipline expert and founder of Positive Parenting Solutions. Once an emotional connection is made, through spending special time alone with your child, "the most important thing to work on is training," McCready continues. "If we take the time to teach them how to do things, from personal care to helping with dinner, they will feel more empowered and less likely to act out. The more time we spend on training, the less time we have to spend on correcting negative behavior."

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How can I help my preschooler become more independent?

The preschool age is a time for rapidly growing independence; your child learns to separate from you in preparation for attending school. During the preschool years, she will learn essential life skills, like dressing and feeding herself. Because children learn best when there are clear rules and expectations, establish regular routines. The morning routine can involve going to the potty, getting dressed, and eating breakfast -- all skills that your child will eventually be able to do on her own. Give some specific tasks that will make her feel important and empowered, like feeding the dog or putting dirty pajamas in the hamper. Simple chores can help her feel as though she has a daily contribution to make.

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16 Comments
ariangely
9/15/2020 05:27:51 am

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Anaisjah
9/15/2020 02:32:09 pm

I think it’s good to create tasks to boost self esteem for children to become more independent and gain confidence

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jasmine Bigelow
9/16/2020 06:45:15 pm

i think its good to get your kid in pre school to give them a headstart

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Jalin
9/16/2020 07:17:52 pm

I think it’s good because so your kid can have a better understanding on how it’s going to be like in school

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Andrew
9/16/2020 07:43:17 pm

I think it is good because you can teach kids to respect adults and all of your peeps. Also show young children how school is going to be.

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Caylin Howard
9/17/2020 07:40:30 am

I didn’t know that at the age 3 a preschooler was suppose to accomplish so much

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deja
9/17/2020 08:30:12 pm

i think its good for kids because they get a head start

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kiara
9/20/2020 03:21:35 pm

i feel like it’s good to put your child in preschool so they can have an early start !

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Sydney
9/20/2020 07:48:48 pm

Preschool is a good decision in my opinion, because it gives children a sense of what school will feel like.

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nia
9/20/2020 09:25:51 pm

i think preschool is a great start for social interaction and teach them to be more independent

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Hailey Buchanan
9/21/2020 07:14:43 am

I feel like preschool is a good thing because it teaches children how to share and learn the basics before real school

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Tyler Scott
9/21/2020 07:18:59 am

I think putting kids in preschool is very important kids get a head start and they learn the basics so when the get to 1st they are already ahead

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Dayana Ibanez
9/21/2020 10:12:36 am

I think putting a child in preschool is such an important thing, because they get to learn from a young age. it helps them develop their brain, and also get them to be more social, and improve their behavior

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Katherin Romero
9/24/2020 05:35:08 pm

I think that giving the children a head start is always a good idea, cause I know/seen parents that don't even have their children in preschool and the parents still have to do everything, like feed them , change them ,etc

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shy
9/30/2020 07:34:49 am

?

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sabrina mcneill
10/18/2020 08:19:55 pm

i think preschool is important because it gives kids an opportunity to get an early start and get used to being seperated from their parents.

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